Monthly Archives: July 2018
Apparently, all families enter a period of crisis when children start leaving home, and the consequences are different. Often a marriage goes through a hectic time, but gradually the situation improves when, as the children leave, the parents develop a new relationship of life together. They successfully resolve conflicts and allow children to find their own partners and make their own careers, moving into the role of grandparents. In a family with a single parent, the loss of a child may be perceived as the beginning of old age and loneliness, but this loss must be experienced and new interests must be found. Whether parents can tolerate this period as part of a normal life path depends on the severity of the loss they experienced, but also partly on the intervention of the therapist at a crucial time. Continue reading
In a well-off family, there is always a sense of today’s and tomorrow’s joy. In order to keep it, the couple needs to leave a bad mood and troubles outside the house, and when they come home, bring with them an atmosphere of elation, joy and optimism. If one of the spouses is in a bad mood, the other should help him get rid of the depressed mental state. In every disturbing and sad situation, you should try to catch the humorous notes, look at yourself from the outside; in the house, you should cultivate humor and jokes. If trouble is piling up, don’t be scared, try to sit down calmly and consistently understand their causes.
Many mistakes can be avoided by following the basic principles of married life together. Continue reading