Family structure
The family structure is the composition of the family and its members, as well as the totality of their relationships (Eidemiller E. G., Justitsky V. V., 2001). The structure of…

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Family history
Many dysfunctional stereotypes in the family are reproduced in generations. For example, the alcoholism, the suicides, Lovelace, etc. Today it is well established genetic disorders, and just patterns of behavior…

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Factors of family well-being, stages and crisis periods of marriage (part 1)
A specialist in psychosocial work is familiar with the problem of analyzing factors of family well-being-trouble. The complexity of the family as a social system and the psychological community of…

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Principles of joint married life

In a well-off family, there is always a sense of today’s and tomorrow’s joy. In order to keep it, the couple needs to leave a bad mood and troubles outside the house, and when they come home, bring with them an atmosphere of elation, joy and optimism. If one of the spouses is in a bad mood, the other should help him get rid of the depressed mental state. In every disturbing and sad situation, you should try to catch the humorous notes, look at yourself from the outside; in the house, you should cultivate humor and jokes. If trouble is piling up, don’t be scared, try to sit down calmly and consistently understand their causes.

Many mistakes can be avoided by following the basic principles of married life together.

Really look at the contradictions that arise before marriage and after its conclusion.
Do not build illusions, so as not to be disappointed, since the present is unlikely to meet the standards and criteria that were previously planned.
Don’t avoid difficulties. Overcoming difficult situations together is a great opportunity to quickly find out how much both partners are willing to live by the principle of bilateral compromise.
Learn the psychology of the partner. To live in harmony, you need to understand each other, adapt, and be able to “please” each other.
Know the price of small things. Small, but frequent signs of attention are more valuable and significant than expensive gifts, which sometimes hide indifference, infidelity, etc.
To be tolerant, to be able to forget the insults. A person is ashamed of some of his mistakes and does not like to remember them. You should not be reminded of something that once broke the relationship and that should have been forgotten.
Be able to understand and anticipate the partner’s desires and needs.
Do not impose your requirements, protect the dignity of the partner.
Understand the benefits of temporary separation. Partners can get bored with each other, and separation allows you to understand how much you love your other half and how it is currently missing.
Take care of yourself. Carelessness, carelessness give rise to hostility and can lead to serious consequences.
Have a sense of proportion. Ability to take criticism calmly and kindly. It is important to emphasize the advantages of the partner first, and then point out the disadvantages in a friendly way.
Be aware of the causes and consequences of infidelity.
Don’t get desperate. Faced with a stressful situation in married life, it would be wrong to “proudly” separate and not look for a way out. But it is even worse to maintain at least an external balance through humiliation and threats.

Family and marriage
The family is based on marriage relations, in which both the natural and social nature of a person is manifested, both the material (social being) and the spiritual (social consciousness)…

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Modern research on family and marriage relations
Currently, the problems of matrimony-parenthood-kinship pay more attention not only in theory, but also in practice. The works of Yu. I. Aleshina, V. N. Druzhinin, S. V. Kovalev, A. S.…

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State of family guilt
The feeling of guilt arises in everyone quite naturally if we commit an unnatural act that generates conflict. Committing exculpatory acts mitigates guilt. In this case, we are talking about…

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Structural and role functioning of the family and its violations (part 1)
The family, as a system, on the one hand has a physical structure represented by specific members, and, on the other hand, there is a structure of relations in the…

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